Demand Letter for Car Accident: How to Get Paid

You've been in a car accident that wasn't your fault. Maybe you're dealing with the at-fault driver's insurance, or maybe they don't have insurance at all. Either way, you're owed money — for car repairs, medical bills, lost wages, or all three.

A demand letter is how you formally request that compensation. Here's everything you need to know about writing one that gets results.

When to Send a Demand Letter After an Accident

Timing matters. Send your demand letter:

After You Know Your Full Damages

Don't send a demand letter before you know the total cost of your damages. This means:

  • You've finished medical treatment (or have a clear prognosis)
  • You've gotten repair estimates or your car has been declared totaled
  • You know how much work you've missed

Sending too early locks you into a number before you know the real cost.

Before the Statute of Limitations

Every state has a deadline for filing personal injury and property damage claims:

StatePersonal InjuryProperty Damage
California2 years3 years
Texas2 years2 years
Florida4 years4 years
New York3 years3 years
Illinois2 years5 years

Send your demand letter at least 60-90 days before the statute of limitations expires to leave time for negotiation.

After Insurance Has Had Time to Investigate

If you're dealing with insurance, give them 2-4 weeks to investigate the claim before sending a demand letter. A letter sent Day 1 often gets ignored.

85%
of car accident claims settle without going to court

What to Include in Your Car Accident Demand Letter

1. Clear Identification of the Accident

  • Date, time, and location of the accident
  • Vehicles involved (make, model, year, license plates)
  • Police report number (if applicable)
  • Claim number (if dealing with insurance)

2. Statement of Facts

A clear, chronological account of what happened:

  • Where you were going and what you were doing
  • What the other driver did that caused the accident
  • The impact and immediate aftermath
  • Any witnesses

Tip: Stick to facts. "The other driver ran a red light" is better than "The other driver was being reckless and careless."

3. Liability Statement

Explain why the other party is at fault:

  • Traffic laws violated (cite your state's vehicle code if possible)
  • Police report findings
  • Witness statements supporting your account

4. Description of Injuries and Treatment

  • Every injury, from major to minor
  • All medical treatment received
  • Ongoing or expected future treatment
  • How injuries affect your daily life

5. Property Damage

  • Vehicle damage (with repair estimates or total loss valuation)
  • Other damaged property (phone, glasses, cargo, etc.)

6. Itemized Damages

A complete accounting of all your losses (see next section).

7. Your Demand

A specific dollar amount with a response deadline (typically 30 days).

8. Supporting Documentation

List all enclosed documents:

  • Police report
  • Medical records and bills
  • Repair estimates
  • Photos of damage and injuries
  • Proof of lost wages

Calculating Your Damages

Economic Damages (Out-of-Pocket Costs)

CategoryExamplesDocumentation
Medical expensesER, surgery, physical therapy, medications, medical equipmentBills and receipts
Future medical costsExpected surgeries, ongoing therapyDoctor's estimate
Lost wagesTime off work for treatment, recoveryPay stubs, employer letter
Future lost incomeReduced earning capacityExpert opinion if available
Vehicle repair/replacementRepair estimate or actual cash value if totaledRepair estimates, NADA value
Rental carTransportation while car was unusableRental receipts
Other propertyPhone, laptop, glasses damaged in crashReceipts, repair costs

Non-Economic Damages (Pain and Suffering)

These are harder to calculate but often make up the largest part of a personal injury claim:

  • Physical pain and suffering: The actual pain from injuries
  • Emotional distress: Anxiety, PTSD, depression
  • Loss of enjoyment: Activities you can no longer do
  • Disfigurement: Scarring or permanent changes
  • Loss of consortium: Impact on relationships

How to Calculate Pain and Suffering

Insurance companies typically use one of two methods:

Multiplier Method: Economic damages × 1.5 to 5

  • Minor injuries, quick recovery: 1.5-2x
  • Moderate injuries, longer recovery: 2-3x
  • Serious injuries, permanent impact: 3-5x

Per Diem Method: A daily rate for every day you suffered

  • Example: $100/day × 180 days of recovery = $18,000

Sample Damage Calculation

  • Medical bills: $12,500
  • Lost wages: $4,000
  • Vehicle repair: $8,200
  • Rental car: $1,100
  • Total economic damages: $25,800
  • Pain and suffering (2.5x multiplier): $41,250
  • Total demand: $67,050

Car Accident Demand Letter Template

[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State ZIP]
[Date]

SENT VIA CERTIFIED MAIL, RETURN RECEIPT REQUESTED

[Insurance Company/At-Fault Driver Name]
[Address]
[City, State ZIP]
Re: Claim #[Number] | Date of Loss: [Accident Date] | Insured: [At-Fault Driver Name]

Dear [Adjuster Name/At-Fault Party]:

This letter constitutes a formal demand for compensation arising from the motor vehicle accident that occurred on [DATE] at [LOCATION]. Your insured, [NAME], caused this collision by [DESCRIBE NEGLIGENT ACTION — e.g., "running a red light at the intersection of Main Street and Oak Avenue"].

Facts of the Accident

On [DATE] at approximately [TIME], I was [describe what you were doing — e.g., "traveling northbound on Main Street approaching the intersection of Oak Avenue"]. At that time, [describe what the other driver did — e.g., "your insured, traveling westbound on Oak Avenue, ran a red light and struck the driver's side of my vehicle"].

The police responded to the scene and documented the accident in report number [NUMBER]. [Mention any witness statements or traffic camera footage if available.]

Injuries and Medical Treatment

As a result of this collision, I sustained the following injuries:

  • [List injuries — e.g., "Cervical strain (whiplash)"]
  • [Additional injuries]

I received the following medical treatment:

  • [List treatment — e.g., "Emergency room visit at City Hospital on [DATE]"]
  • [Physical therapy, follow-up visits, etc.]

[Describe ongoing symptoms or limitations if applicable.]

Property Damage

My [YEAR MAKE MODEL] vehicle sustained significant damage to the [describe damage]. Per the enclosed repair estimate from [SHOP NAME], the cost to repair is $[AMOUNT]. [Or: My vehicle was declared a total loss. The fair market value is $[AMOUNT] based on [NADA/KBB/comparable sales].]

Damages

Medical expenses$[AMOUNT]
Future medical (estimated)$[AMOUNT]
Lost wages$[AMOUNT]
Vehicle repair/replacement$[AMOUNT]
Rental car$[AMOUNT]
Other property damage$[AMOUNT]
Pain and suffering$[AMOUNT]
TOTAL DEMAND$[TOTAL]

Demand

Based on the clear liability of your insured and the damages I have suffered, I demand payment in the amount of $[TOTAL AMOUNT].

Please respond to this demand within thirty (30) days. If I do not receive an acceptable response, I am prepared to file suit and seek full recovery through the courts, including additional costs and attorney's fees where permitted by law.

Enclosed Documentation:

  • Police report
  • Medical records and bills
  • Proof of lost wages
  • Repair estimates/total loss valuation
  • Photos of damage and injuries

Sincerely,

[Your Signature]
[Your Printed Name]
[Phone Number]
[Email Address]

Negotiating with Insurance Companies

Your demand letter is the opening of a negotiation. Here's how to handle the back-and-forth:

Start High, But Be Reasonable

Demand more than you'd accept, but stay within reason. Asking for $500,000 on $5,000 in damages gets you ignored. Asking for $15,000-$20,000 when you'd accept $10,000 gives room to negotiate.

Expect a Low First Offer

Insurance adjusters are trained to start low. A first offer of 30-50% of your demand is normal. Don't accept it — but don't be insulted either. Counter with 10-15% below your original demand.

Don't Accept Verbal Offers

Get everything in writing. Verbal offers aren't binding. Before accepting any settlement, get a written offer that spells out exactly what you're receiving.

Know Your BATNA

Your Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement is small claims court (for smaller claims) or a personal injury lawsuit (for larger ones). If the insurance company knows you'll actually sue, they negotiate more seriously.

Don't Discuss the Accident in Detail

If an adjuster calls to "discuss" the accident, be careful. They're looking for statements they can use to reduce your claim. Let your demand letter speak for itself.

What If They Don't Have Insurance?

About 13% of U.S. drivers are uninsured. If the at-fault driver has no insurance:

1. Check Your Own Policy

If you have uninsured motorist (UM) coverage, file a claim with your own insurer. They'll pay you and then try to recover from the at-fault driver.

2. Send a Demand Letter Anyway

Send the letter directly to the at-fault driver. They may have assets or be willing to set up a payment plan to avoid a lawsuit.

3. Sue Them

For smaller amounts, small claims court is quick and doesn't require a lawyer. For larger amounts, a personal injury attorney may take your case on contingency.

4. Wage Garnishment

If you win a judgment, you can garnish their wages or levy their bank accounts. Having a judgment also affects their credit and ability to get future insurance.

What Happens After You Send Your Demand Letter

After mailing your demand letter, expect one of four outcomes:

1. They Pay (Best Case)

Some defendants or insurers will pay the full demand to avoid further hassle. More common with straightforward liability and well-documented damages.

2. They Counter-Offer (Most Common)

You'll go through several rounds of negotiation, meeting somewhere in the middle. This is normal and expected.

3. They Deny Liability

If they deny they're at fault, you'll need to decide whether to sue. For car accidents, the police report and physical evidence usually make liability clear.

4. They Ignore You

If they don't respond within your deadline, send a brief follow-up giving them 10 more days. Then follow through: file in small claims court or consult a personal injury attorney.

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Key Takeaways

  • Wait until you know your full damages before sending a demand letter
  • Include all economic damages (medical, lost wages, property) plus pain and suffering
  • Use the multiplier method (1.5-5x economic damages) to calculate pain and suffering
  • Send via certified mail with return receipt for proof of delivery
  • Expect negotiation — your demand letter is the opening offer, not the final number
  • If they have no insurance, check your own uninsured motorist coverage first

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